Well I have been writing about how to please or tease both men and women while they are all tied up, and I got onto butt plugs. Well never having tried one before, but also not being an anal virgin either, I thought I would psych myself up and go buy one to try, if I could first get over my memories of one of my first and last anal sex encounters.
When I had anal sex before it was a long time ago with a Brazilian guy who was one of the house mates when I used to live in Paddington, London. When the Aussies and Kiwis get rooms in a place they are stopping over to work in, it becomes a glorified crash pad for anyone and his mate. We took all and sundry at our place.
There may be one or two people on the lease. But believe me, you landlords out there would have a hissy fit if you could see your precious apartments having every room turned into a bedroom with sleeping bags and mattresses replacing all the furniture.
With every room being turned into a bedroom, mostly men and women sharing the same space you get intimate sometimes. So there I was, sharing a few funny cigarettes that Jacquie Smith the politician would whole heartedly approve of, and drinking lots of booze with some of the guys.
We eventually get down to some rumpy pumpy that is more in keeping with the sort of stuff Jacquie Smith's husband would approve of, alas we didn't film it!
So while I am having doggy sex and having a good time, the big sod decides to shove it in my ass. And yes he really was a big sod. It must have been 9 or 10 inches long. Well that sort of surprise made me all tense, and being unlubed, my poor bottom took a horrid pounding. Needless to say was quite sore afterwards. That experience has never really gone away. It was more a rape of my bottom really, as I didn't really want to have sex that way but carried on regardless. Stupid I know.
So back to my new toy. I bought a nice little one.
It is a nice pretty pink colour, about 5 inches long including the flared base of 1 inch, so that leaves a very pleasant and reasonable 4 inches to insert.
It has an on off button on the base of it, but also a keyring type fob that can be used to turn it on and off too.
It will be great if I want Peter to tie me up with it in, so he can have the controls to tease me. Or if I want to play self bondage games, when I cant reach the
fob so shut it off in the throes of Ecstasy.
With a bit of trepidation I ripped open the package and went up to the bathroom to have a play. Well it was botty sex, so thought I would be near the toilet in case there were any accidents!
With a very big squirt of KY, I gingerly tried to insert it. At first I was a bit tense so tried to relax and just push it in slowly but firmly. I was ready to stop if it hurt, but was amazed that it was already all the way in. It went in so easily and although it felt what I have to say as alien. It was not unpleasant.
I believe when you do anything that is strange to you, you have to want to give things a try to succeed at doing them.
There is all the hang up about it being dirty - It wasn't.
A man, having anal sex. It will emasculate you - Total rubbish. Nothing better than letting your girl put a finger up there and play with your prostate. You will have an unbelievable orgasm, so have the tissues ready.
Then there are the people that say having anal sex will ruin your muscles and you will leek poo everywhere. Well your anal muscles expand and contract when you have a poo. That is all muscle control. Now there may be a little truth in this, but doesn't it depend on how fit you are? I think so. I don't mean all buff and muscle bound here, I mean I wouldn't expect an incontinent person to try this just in case.
Since then, I have gone for walks with it in with no adverse effects. The longest I have had it in for about an hour or so. Everyone else maybe, give it a try just once in your life. I ran my batteries out on the first try.
Happy bondage.
Emma x
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