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Monday, 10 May 2010

Self Bondage Poll Summary

Thanks again for voting on my self bondage poll. As it's finished I thought I would sum up the results.

You are all male apart from me lol.
It added to my theory that its the guys that like to be tied up. Why? I cant really get a handle on it, but I am still working on it.

Vast majority that tried it either tried it as a kid, or are still practicing.
The hardcore, approx 20% of you, do it weekly. While approx 50% will try it over the year. I was in the monthly section on this one.

60% of you have never been caught at it. Of those that never participated in a self bondage act, the reason was more from not having the free time or the house to themselves. But a good few of you are ashamed about it, as if its a nasty kinky act.
Well the reason for the blog is my hope of bringing bondage mainstream, and to have a bit of fun in the bedroom, because I see it as a way to enhance the love making.

Now the surprising factor for me was, of all the guys that practice self bondage and used toys, almost 50% used a butt plug. Well I was in that group too, but as the lowly female, I wasn't affecting the % all that much lol. The only reason I mentioning this is because of the stigma attached to it.

If you stuff a vibrating Rabbit up a girls fanny and then slip another dildo up her arse (if she is into anal), you guys dont see anything wrong with this. And there isnt if its consenting.

But for a guy to admit he put a vibe up his poopshoot, to other guys he becomes a gay fag! Well that's just a load of bull. It's all because we have been brainwashed that it is all wrong, dirty and unnatural. For those that haven't tried it, have your girl lube up your backdoor and set her the task of finding that prostate of yours. You wont know what the hell hit you when she makes you come.

I wasn't surprised that half of you dressed in women's clothing. Now I am not saying anyones a cross dresser. I was told it was the feel of silk knickers, the few that contacted me liked. Just make sure they are nicely washed and placed back in the drawer when you have used them. I am pretty sure your gals will be cheesed off to find a nasty stain on her lovely undies that she was planing to wear.

I was also one of the few that weren't satisfied with self bondage although I do it a fair bit. Approx 20% of you I gather, either never got off on it, or more than likely just wanted partners to play with them. That was my reason.

Approx 70% of us use rope. I like rope as I mentioned before. Its a little more stretchy than those pesky rigid handcuffs and chains that dig unforgiving into soft tender flesh. Others included scarfs and cable ties, but a few adventurous sole tried a bit of self mummification with that clingfilm roll in the kitchen drawer.
Of course the majority went for the Gag and blindfold combination when the truss themselves up.
Well bondage just isnt bondage with out a gag is it :-))

Happy bondage.
Emma x

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

None of your results really surprise me Emma. Me being a switch, like to feel helpless when roped up. Mind in my eyes its not really bondage unless there is no escape. So yes i do need a play partner. It is quite rare that i can't escape smiles.

Charlie xx xx (houdini1951@yahoo.co.uk

PS google wont let me into my account so it wll have to be annon