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Tuesday, 23 November 2010

Man bondage . . .

I was having an online discussion with a friend of mine the other day and we were discussing bondage as usual.
"Quelle horreur " you say, doesn't she think about anything else? Yes really I do,
but bondage is more fun now isn't it. So what got me so engrossed in this discussion you ask?

Man bondage.

It seems that you guys out there like to be tied up and teased for a bit, and to be in our evil clutches for a little while. But when you have had the big "O" orgasm, you lose all interest and want out faster than Manchester City want new managers!

Now why is that we were wondering? We came up with a few points but if you want to drop me a line, feel free to let me know (all in strictest confidence and anonymity!)

1.You either don't like to be touched after sex as the little fella is to sensitive.
2.You don't like being messy and rolling around in your own spoof.(Peter is guilty of this one!)
3.Boredom - or as I like to say, after sex your boy brains revert back to beer and football.

Can you guys out there shed any light on it for me or add any other points? Us girls out here are curious.

Now for my other question to you guys out there.

How many of you like to see a girl tied up and in your evil clutches? Loads I bet.
But do you let the girls go after? Or do you continue the sexy onslaught with vibrators for forced orgasms, or for blow jobs as we are your prisoners and cant get away?

I await your responses with bated breath.
Happy Bondage.
Emma x

10 comments:

JustSomeDude said...

That post was about as spot on as you can get. Well, I can't speak for everyone, but I can't imagine too many others opinions varying too much. I don't know if there is a much more deeper "why" answer though. Get tied up, teased a bit, orgasm, zzzzzzz. And then sports, haha. But not out of boredom. I think the mind becomes satisfied at orgasm and then immediately focuses on whatever else is next on the priority list. I suppose the solution is to keep the man tied up for a short recovery period, then start the experience again with arousal. In the arousal stage, nothing else matters except to get to orgasm, no matter how long the tease session may last. Personally, when it is a "diy" bondage session, after the orgasm, it's a race to get everything put away and return to normal, even if there was immense thought into prolonging a session for multiple hours. The fantasy of it all disappears once the goal is achieved.

As for question two, my question is, is it the same for girls? In that after the orgasm is achieved, do the ladies also want out of the clutches of another and get on with life? Perhaps not to the game involving the local sports team. Obviously the "each person differs" answer is in play here, but is there a general consensus amongst females? Cause, as a man, the damsel in distress thing is top of the list. And after the orgasm... sensitivity torture! I don't know why that's so hot. Maybe because the adult movies portray it to be hot, I don't know. It just is. The squirming, the helplessness, the pleas for relief. It's all about control. Having that kind of control busts through the arousal meter. And the "I'll let you out after you pleasure me" addendum is highly anticipated. For people who like that sort of kink, how often is it to have a temporary prisoner that will fulfill your fantasy? Consensual, obviously. It's the best when finding a girl that's new to the idea of light domination, who might need to be talked into it, sort of like a breaking in period, even if it's nothing more than some rope and the bedposts every once in awhile.

I don't know if this answered anything, or if I pulled from the "general knowledge" section of the encyclopedia. I was told that sharing was a form of caring. Thanks, after-school specials!

madjack said...

Oh good... and easy one!

I instantly recognised the scenario. When the mood takes me I love being tied up; nothing could be more fun. but as soon as I've cum the party is over so far as my body is concerned. No matter how sexy I feel or how much I want to continue all the 'automatics' are set to either: 'eat', 'sleep' 'pee' or 'TV'. And I hate it!

My GF will often be keen to continue - especially if she's not had her fun and all I want to do is roll over for a quick 40 winks!

We've discussed this and I have suggested (only a little bit selfishly!) that she should ensure I don't cum until she's had at least 2 or 3 orgasms and that I don't mind in the least being held in a trembling erect state for over an hour!

My GF can also be a 'once I've cum. let me loose' person - she will often (though not as often as I would like - if you see what I mean) insist on being untied and quickly drift off to sleep after an intense orgasm. I can't complain but do sometimes feel cheated that she's satisfied and I'm not (boo!)

MJ

Anonymous said...

my GF tied me up last week and gave me an amazing handjob. Being tied up she took great pleasure in milking me dry enjoying it as a begged her to stop. After a long and highly enjoyable 3 minutes i was released from my binds.

To answer the question. yes i like to stop after orgasm and usually go to sleep!

Emma Bond said...

Hi guys.

Thanks for the insight Dude.
I didn't want to go down the route of saying "just leave you tied up", as I wanted the guys to comment and have a more in-depth point of view. Your points are spot on; I was sort of thinking along the same lines. I guess it's dependant on the mood we are in at the time.
The lucky thing about girls are we get to have multiple orgasms.
One is nice, two and three are better and great, then usually after that we try to resist the urges as we get sentitive and they become painful after time.

Madjack's right on the money with the intensity of the orgasm though, I know sometimes I just want to stop and have a little sleep.

I guess it's okay being tied up for as long as it takes, as we are all being pleasured (be-it 5 mins to hours), but when the orgasms are over it's beer and footy time.

Thanks for the comments and keep'em coming guys.
Emma x

PateInduced said...

Hi, Dropped in from FetLife. You have a super site and erotic grip on my interests. You play Cowboys and Indians in UK? We share some arousing reactions to the fun.

Re: your 2 questions. First, as the others say, spewing is like water on a fire. And, persisting afterwards is actually painful. So, relax and be lovey. In ten minutes the well should be ready for another trip to geysers. An alternate is to tease, deny.

Would love to buzz a girl into multi-O bliss.

Anonymous said...

This can be true some of the time, but often, I want to cuddle afterward.

I guess this makes me pretty weird since I've heard that's supposed to be a woman thing, no offense of course.

Emma Bond said...
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Emma Bond said...

Hi there Anon.
I like a cuddle too, so you aren't weird.
Emma x

Anonymous said...

Yes there is a sensitivity of any kind of touch and a lack of desire much like not being hungry any more after having eaten enough but I have an intense desire for being kept bound through that and being force to to go again. I do appreciate that my wife will sometimes tie me up and tease me but she never really gets it, will look for the mininimal way to do it, always too nice asking if that is comfortable rather than being a real bitch to me. Even though I have asked her to keep me tied and try to milk me multiple times in one evening when I do cum, even if early she untied just enough so I can easily get myself out and asks me to cleaan up and pack all the bondage gear away. I am so keen to be forced to multiple bondage orgasm even if in the immediate moment I don't feel like it give me just A few minutes recovery and then make me go again. Bondage is about sex but not only that, it is about being in someones power and being used, use me.

Emma Bond said...

Again, thanks to our anonymous readers here for replying. I do like to hear your thoughts.
The trouble with relationships is there is always one side who is more highly charged than the other.
Be it sex or in this case bondage.
From what you say and my its just my interpretation, that your wife seems to get bored after a while, with the idea of wanting to domme you.
She does do it because it makes you happy and she wants you to be fullfilled in that sense, but on the other side she may not like it as it makes her uncomfortable (even though you are in the ropes, lol)or possibly doesnt know how, I guess.
I guess here, we all need to be more frank with our play partners. This includes Peter and I too, to make them more aware of our needs and requirements in the sex department, just like we tell them what we want in other everyday mundane things we do.
Emma x