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Sunday, 28 September 2008

Hancuffed Hogtie

I have a set of cuffs that include handcuffs connected by a length of chain to the leg cuffs. I have only really seen handcuffs or the leg cuffs but not both, so Peter and I bought them. The only trouble is that when you put them on and get into a hogtie, they leave a large amount of room to wriggle about in.

Now for those of you that read me every once and a while, you will know that I am one of those gals that likes the challenge to escape and to be snugglly tied up. So I asked Peter if he could shorten the chain a bit. Not that I would be escaping with out a key, but I was happy to go into my bondageland dream of the damsel in distress again. You know how it is. Well he duly obliged with some mini padlocks we have knocking around. He gagged me and blindfolded me and then he shortened the chains.

Well he did a very good job of shortening the chains I can tell you. He fist padlocked the handcuffs as close to each other as he could get them, pushing the padlock through the chain links. Then he did the same with tthe leg cuffs. My ankles were almost touching as were my wrists. No worries there, but he went to town by shortening the chain between the two, almost to nothing.

My wrists were pulled down to my feet and the padlock was threaded through the chain which shortened it almost to a few inches and was then locked off. Great! Well it was for a little while. So I am gently wriggling about on the bed, not to much, as I dont want to rub the skin off my wrists and ankles, and quietly mmphing into the ball gag getting into my scene. So about 10 to 15 minutes or so all was fine. Well I thought it was 10 to 15 minutes,but I was blind folded and couldnt really tell you.

The cuffs were not overly tight but not overly loose. I could wriggle in the cuffs a little. The hogtie was what I wanted to do. Consensual bondage is always good. The shortening of the chain was how I wanted it.

But when the chain is really short, it pulls the cuffs and you end up pulling back at the ankles. The metal cuffs bite into your flesh and it starts to ache. Well ache was an understatement. It really hurt my ankles. I guess the cuffs were pinching a nerve. I started to fidget about trying to get comfortable, but moving about was totally the wrong thing to do. I figured I had best sit dead still instead. I tried to position myself on my side and to press my legs against the end of my bed so I wouldn't pull on them and prevent the cuffs biting into my flesh.

After a little while Peter came to see if I was okay. Now we have a little "safe word" thing, I talked about in an earlier posting.
If we are gagged I hum him a tune or shake my head vigorously to let him know I am in pain. So I start nodding my head. Peter ungagged me and asked if I was okay. I had to tell him to lengthen the chain. My overly ambitious hogtie failed after 6 minutes. The looser chain was much easier and did a half hour stint, but I thought I would let you know the down side of what can go wrong.

I guess I should wear my boots next time, or only use the cuffs when sitting down on a chair. Still we live and learn.

Happy bondage.
Emma x

Sunday, 14 September 2008

Art or Porn?

I was looking at Tony's blog the other day and he posted a few arty style pics, so I thought I would dig a few I have out.
What constitutes art and what constitutes porn? I have my ideas, but what do you think? Do you think a naked lady is art or porn?
The puritans will burn me at the cross, but I think if things aren't blatant and in your face, and you are left with a picture that leaves you to your imagination, then in my eyes it is art.
Drop me a line and let me know what you think.

Thursday, 4 September 2008

My little gripe about the Web Sites.

As you know I like to dabble in a little bondage now and again for thrills and of course the sex afterwards.

I also like to view the web and see what is out there and to get inspiration, if you like.

What disturbs me though is there are many sights that seem to degrade us girls, both physically and verbally.

Now you will know from my previous posts that I am not really into the bondage and torture side of things. I am more into a little light spanking, maybe some nipple clamps and of course nice snug bondage. I sometimes dress up or wear naughty clothes and have even been encased in a hood too. I love forced orgasms but that would be about as far as "I" want to take it.

There are some people out there that like to experience what I would call heavy bondage. And dare I say it, enjoy it. So they get paid for their time you say, so what. Well that's true.That's up to them, and I am quite liberated enough to say it is their choice in the matter. Some people like to be dominated, and some people like to be heavily whipped and spanked. Some of you even like to play blood and piercing games. Well none of this falls into my moan today, I am just setting the scene so to speak.

What really pisses me off though, is the fact that there are some sites out there, who pay the money and are probably all nice as pie to the girls behind the scenes too. But when they come around to writing the snippets that go along side the pictures or the video they post, they call the girls Sluts or Bitches or Cunts ( the latter I find really offensive).

This could be why society in the past has pushed us women into what was a second class citizen role. There are even places in the world today that still keep us in our place ie the bottom rung of the ladder. Well that's politics, and we don't do that here in Bondageland.

All I am going to ask is that when you are partaking in the odd BDSM fantasy, try to respect us girls. We aren't Cunts,Bitches,Cooze,Whores and the like. We are people and should be treated and written about with a bit of respect. It takes a lot of guts to strip off and be filmed or photographed and to be ogled by you men out there. So be kind.

Happy bondage.
Emma x

Monday, 1 September 2008


Video sent by zucav

I found this funny clip on the web. If you like dressing up and playing games like me then you will love it. Can batman reach his nubile love and quench his fiery passion . . .
Emma x